December 22, 2013 ~ By Request: Connection-Requests

 

Sunday, December 22, 2013 ~ By Request:  Connection-Requests

(courtesy of the work of Miki Kashtan – see BayNVC.org for further details/copyright)

Connection-Requests doc

Phrasing Connection-Requests

(Beginning at 27:15 minute mark)

Naturalizing NVC w/ Miki Kashtan – YouTube

Wanting Fully Without Attachment | Tikkun Magazine

Cache of articles by Miki Kashtan at Tikkun Daily

Miki’s blog: The Fearless Heart

See also:

John Gottman: How to Build Trust

An emotional bid may be “a question, a gesture, a look, a touch — any single expression that says I want to feel connected to you” (Gottman).

Ways People React to Bids for Connection

1. To come closer (turning toward)

2. To go further way (turning away/against)

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