Sunday, December 22, 2013 ~ By Request: Connection-Requests
(courtesy of the work of Miki Kashtan – see BayNVC.org for further details/copyright)
(Beginning at 27:15 minute mark)
Miki’s blog: The Fearless Heart
An emotional bid may be “a question, a gesture, a look, a touch — any single expression that says I want to feel connected to you” (Gottman).
Ways People React to Bids for Connection
1. To come closer (turning toward)
2. To go further way (turning away/against)